Roman Siekerkowski

[poyks]

I've just found out that my Grandfather has passed away. We have always had a very close family, and this has hit us hard.

My Grandad was a very clever man, always dabbling with electronics (he used to have his own business repairing TVs and radios). He always had a wicked sense of humour, and I'm sure I get my humour from him.
I'm very gratful that I had lots of holidays with him last year, including Spain, Ireland, and his old home town in Poland.

Carol-Anne (Mrs Poyks) thought it would do me some good to share this with my friends on the forum, as I'm just feeling rather numb at the moment.

This is a photo of Him and I enjoying some fine Polish beer last year on holiday.



Rest in peace Grandad, my life inspiration and best friend.

[David Faltskog]

So sorry to hear of your loss, My deepest sympathy's to you and your family.

D.F.

[poyks]

Thank you D.F.

[RustiSwordz]

Yeah i know how you feel, my Dad when he died a lump of me went with him. I know exactly how you feel right now. The important thing is is to live your life, he would want you to press on and enjoy the days ahead. I know my dad would for me. My dad was both my Dad and one of my best friends.
Regards

[poyks]

That is so right mate. I've just been talking to my relatives on the phone, and there is the full range of emotions going on right now. At the same time we are all doing our best for ourselves in respect for him. He spent his life making everything good for us, so we are going to give him the best send off ever. There will be a lot of tears, but also a great deal of laughter and brilliant memories.

Thanks.

[Scifishocks]

My deepest sympathies, Brendan.
When I lost my Dad last year, I found a lot of comfort in remembering the good times and sharing them with those close to me.
Your Granddad was obviously a top bloke and you'll always have the fond memories of the times you spent with him. I'm sure you will always treasure them.
When we see you next, we shall raise a glass to him, I'm sure.
All the very best to you and yours.

[poyks]

Thank you mate. I'm going trough a strange phase at the moment. I've at last had a mad fit of tears, now I'm calming down again. Thank fuck I've got Caz here to look after me.

[Scifishocks]

Yes, mate, that's how it goes.
I know you'll pull through and I also know that Caz will be there for you.
Your Granddad may have left this world, but he will always be there as part of you.... in your memories and in your heart.
If you need anything, let me know.

[poyks]

Thanks. Giz a bell sometime soon.

[Scifishocks]

Sure, let me know when you feel like talking and I'll be there.
Anytime.

[poyks]

Thanks mate.

[richardburton]

So sorry to hear about you losing your Grandfather, mate. He sounded like a wonderful bloke. Concentrate on the fact that you managed to have some lovely times with him before he passed - remember those times and just take it one day at a time.

[mrgrotey]

My deepest sympathies mate, real crappy news, I feel for you. Family death is a real kick in the teeth but the memories of the good times definitely keep you on your feet.

[RustiSwordz]

When all is at its darkest you remember that the grief will one day end. How people deal with grief is individual to that person, but you will work it through. You do adapt.

You never forget but you do get used to the loss. The subconscious will work the rest out in time.

[Anim8tr]

Our sincerest condolences to you and your loved ones, Brendan.

May both your Grandfather's brilliance and the memories of shared times help to guide and heal all.

D&R~